By Souls of Silver
Most of us have these moments in life where we believe nothing is going the way it is supposed to. All that we have built so far is crumbling down. But most of us have also not realized that when we feel these things, they are actually going to turn around for the best.
Change is seldom welcome. Human beings are creatures of habit and a giant majority of our species hates change. Which is why generation gaps exist. But it is important to remember that when the society, and our lives seem to be in utter chaos, they are just lining up to rise from the ashes and be the best it can be. Here’s how to spot life-changing things in your life: –
1. You find things that you already hate absolutely unbearable.
We have a plethora of things in our lives that are absolute nonsense. But it is when we reach the breaking point with them that change becomes necessary.
It can almost be equated with the buzzing and biting of mosquitoes. You don’t mind one mosquito buzzing. You try to make it go away by yapping your hands or covering your head with the blanket. But when the mosquito simply does not go away, then you get up and get the spray or a newspaper to kill the mosquito.
Our lives are the same, on a philosophical level. It is when we are just done with the irritants that we take action to be the best version of ourselves.
It will sound cliché. In order to discover yourself, you have to lose yourself. We have obviously come across this line in many cheesy movies, Instagram bios, and what not. But it is important to remember that if it was utter nonsense, then we would not see this utterance so much, in so many places.
It is when we feel lost that we look around for clarity and direction. Because if we think we’re on the correct path, then there’s no questioning anything in the first place.
3. Relinquishing the incubator.
Has it ever crossed your mind that there are spans of time when you are completely packed and busy? You have parties to go to, adventures to undertake, friends to meet, family to visit, and so many other things which seem to overwhelm you. But then again, there comes a time when you are alone, probably sad, and thinking about life.
These moments offer us growth, spiritually, emotionally, and psychologically. These are the times you recharge yourself, reevaluate your goals, judge the individuals surrounding you and embark on another journey to fulfill new goals.
4. You experience fear, excitement, and anxiety all at the exact same time.
You are stepping out of your comfort zone. It feels exciting to be on this new path that you have undertaken. But you’re scared and anxious about the possibilities. Plowing through is the only option. You make sure this is a time that you give yourself, for yourself, by yourself.
This is not the point to turn back and look at the past but look for a better future that awaits you. It’s not possible to say when that future will be. It might be soon, it might far away or it might be this very moment. All that is important is to never lose hope and sight of the goal.
5. Everything falls into place.
The universe is going to leave subtle signs here and there to show you are on the right path.
When one undergoes a significant change, it is possible that one will see the number 5 in all places. This number is the clearest indication that you must change for the better. It is time to transform.
Change is inevitable. It is unstoppable and constant. Unless we adapt ourselves to change with our surroundings, we will be left behind. Remember, all it takes is some motivation and some hope.
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