By Souls of Silver
We often underestimate the capabilities of a toxic man in our lives. We think it is okay to lose ourselves in the process of loving him. To be honest, that’s exactly what a toxic man wants. Since he has lost his way he ensures he controls you in a way that you lose yourself to him.
The impact of a toxic relationship is unprecedented. It affects your mental well-being and changes your life and you will never know how. Finally, when you decide to let go and move on, you will have to bear the brunt. The pain of assembling your broken heart and walking away.
While dealing with a toxic man, you will never know when you forget who you are. Finally, when you set out to seek for yourself, the journey will never be easy. Moving on is rather difficult and the impact on life is irreversible.
Read: This Is How A Toxic Guy Changes Who You Are
Don’t believe those Lies
Toxic relationships always come with a burden. The burden of facing the after-effects which are generally not so charming. You are so engrossed in proving yourself to the toxic man that you crush your self-esteem. You don’t remember what you’re worth.
Your confidence is gone. You keep wondering where you went wrong with yourself. Now you only dream of becoming the confident and happy woman you once were. You are filled with unanswered questions. Before you know, you have lost yourself.
What’s the point of being with a person who makes you feel lonely even in his presence? That’s what a toxic man is like. He distances you from your friends and family. Your close ones are not fond of him. And you are left alone with him. Feeling lonely even with a partner is not a good feeling, is it?
Slowly you begin to understand his lies and his ways of deceiving you. He keeps on pulling his same old excuses and tantrums, and you keep putting up with them.
But, at the end of the day, it’s your choice, right? You are the master of your will and you get to decide if you’re going to continue living in pain with that toxic man. There should be a kick from within you, a sudden light that removes the darkness. And lets you see clearly that you want to come out of the mess.
Let go of that Toxic Man
Breaking free from toxic relationships is difficult. It comes with moving on too which is never an easy task. It won’t happen in the blink of an eye but if you want you can walk away too.
Ever heard about the light at the end of the tunnel? That light is your life and the tunnel is the toxic relationship. Life on the other side of a harmful relationship is nothing short of best!
After letting go of the toxicity and the toxic man, you can finally see clearly. You’ll feel free, and it seems as if you can breathe normally again. You don’t feel that suffocation anymore. You stop seeing things through his eyes and finally find the will to build a better future.
Settling for less is the last thing you want to do in your life. You owe yourself happiness, love, and peace. A toxic man will never be able to give you any of them. Walkout before it’s too late and wait for the right one. Life is full of surprises and you never know happiness might just be around the corner!
